the less you are like anyone else,
which makes you unique.” —Walt Disney
A generation ago, I didn’t teach parents of school-age children how to instruct their children about peer pressure. But times have changed.
Unfortunately, peer pressure, is starting earlier; happening at lightning speed; on an unprecedented scale; and is fueled by social media. To make matters worse, today’s children may be less equipped to resist peer pressure, due to overprotective “helicopter parents.” (1)
Helicopter Parents Defined
Jennifer O’Donnell defines the term “Helicopter parents” “as a group of parents who engage in the practice of over-parenting. Helicopter parents are accused of being obsessed with their children’s education, safety, extracurricular activities, and other aspects of their children’s lives.” (1)
Another description by Indiana University psychologist Chris Meno adds, “Helicopter parents can be identified by their tendency to hover close to their child, ready to come to the rescue at the first sign of difficulty or disappointment.” (2)
Helping or Hindering?
- What are Helicopter Parents? Jennifer O’Donnell, About.com Guide.
- Peer Pressure: Why it seems worse than ever and how to help kids resist it, Malia Jacobson.
- “Helicopter parents” stir up anxiety, depression. Indiana University, IU Newsroom, newsinfo.iu.edu.
- Image: nicubunu-Peer-to-peer [freesvg.org]
Ugh…I realized a year ago I was a helicopter parent…it is tough to back off, but it has helped tremendously…I remember my mom saying that I was stopping him from making the mistakes he was expected to mistake now, but he won’t learn, and will be making mistakes late into his twenties, when it won’t be acceptable…hit me hard…